With all that build-up, you'd have thought it would have gone a tad better today, but we are talking about a 19 month old here.
1. We were a few minutes early, and she wanted in the water NOW. I told her nicely not yet, and she was the only child to throw a MASSIVE tantrum. Whee!
2. When we finally got in, she went bonkers and wanted out of my arms, while all the other chilren lovingly grabbed onto their mommies. I asked the teacher if I could let her drown just a little bit to let her know what would happen if I wasn't holding on for dear life, but she advised against it. She was right. At the very end, I dunked her under once, and she got hysterical. I forgot how much she hates water in her eyes - she'd have hated the rest of the class (even more;)
3. Once she realized I wasn't letting go, she proceeded to spend the next 20 minutes (of a 30 minute class) smiling broadly and proclaiming over and over - "Alldonealldonealldonealldonealldonealldonealldonealdonealldone!!! (etc.)" So I had to use all my trickery to keep her in the water and amused. Phew!
When we got in the car, I asked if she'd had fun, and she smiled and shouted "FUN! Swim class!!" So I think she's willing to go back... I might go back too. Well, for $20, I'll do just about anything;)
So with all that insanity, you'd think I would be completely opposed to having any more - and you'd be right. Apparently, I really dislike babies. But I committed to this family thing and siblings are a part of it. Dagnabit. And with Jared turning 32 this weekend, he's afraid he won't be able to chase any more kids much longer. Old man and all that.
Since the last one was a shock and a half, we're trying to plan out the next one - and that's where y'all come in. We figure the best time to give birth next time is in the spring - not too pregnant at the Christmas rush but not big and preggo during the summer either. So it looks like we are trying for getting pregnant July or August, and wouldn't it be fun if we were ALL PREGNANT at the SAME TIME?!? We're trying to recruit some other baby-ing couples, but so far, no luck. Come on, people!! It's the Summer of Love ! Do it for your country - er.. blog friends?
Seriously! Think about it!
Well Reva, spring babies are fun!! I have two born in May, so we're now trying for late summer, I know massively preggo for the summer, well, I want Ben and his nest sib to be closer to 2 1/2 years apart, so that would put us trying to get pregnant in the fall/winter. Close enough???
ReplyDeleteGood times at the pool, I can't believe how much she talks at 19 months. golden child - but not while swimming eh?
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ReplyDeleteHeh, reminds me of my brother when he was little. We were staying at a hotel and he was too small for the big people pool so I got to watch him in the wading pool. The first time he dunked under I freaked (he was 2 maybe?) but he came up coughing, spluttering and saying "I all right, I all right!" an then proceeded to try and drown himself over and over, jumping up each time to say "I all right!"
ReplyDeleteha ha... I can't wait to take our Ben swimming. I hope he likes it! As far as having a baby the same time? Unless it's an accident- we wont be having one for a couple years... sorry lady. He's just too new. Having two kids in diapers would be a little too much for me!
ReplyDeleteWell, it wouldn't be fair to the other parents if Solei never threw fits now would it? Besides at 19 mos. it is her perogative to throw them whenever she wants.
ReplyDeleteAs for the baby thing. I probably like babies about as much as you do and with James only 6 months old we will not be seeing any fertility specialists anytime soon. Why did we have to marry such baby lovers? Good luck to you though. I'm sure it will all turn out for the best.
Bah,see that's the problem! Every one we know has wee ones and they aren't ready for another one. How did we get off schedule with everyone?!
ReplyDeleteDANG, girl, you know I'd love to join you if I could!!! Spring babies are lovely -- I was never too hot and sweaty during the summer, and never too cold during the winter 'cause he kept me nice and cozy warm! :) *sigh* I guess I'll just be sittin' over here turning green with envy instead of morning sickness. ;)
ReplyDeleteWell, uh, as I'm *due* with our second in early September. . . It will be at least another year after that before we're ready for more!
ReplyDeleteI'm finally on fertility drugs to get the gears down under working...soooo....here's to lots and lots of sex!
ReplyDeleteHa ha! I'm about on the same kid schedule you are right now...so maybe we'll have kids at about the same time. It'd be perfect! ...except that you're about 1,235,253 miles away from here... dangit.
ReplyDeleteJust don't have a baby in April. April girls, from my experience, seem to be little primadonnas :P I almost want in...my biological clock is starting to tick I think.
ReplyDeleteI would love to comply, but I need a husband first...sorry, I am just barely getting back into the 'I really need to start dating again' mode after my disastrous train wreck last year...and I really am moving out to Abalama, so I will see you soon...just waiting for the very large tax return to show up in the bank account...
ReplyDeleteAbout three weeks ago I took the kids to the pool, and Michael walked right down the stairs without any floaties on! He sank to the bottom of the three feet (his head only a few inches from the top)! It scared me to death! I hurried in after him, with Isaac still in my arms, and brought up a sputtering Michael. But he got his floaties on and went swimming without another thought! I was grateful! As for spring babies, definitely easier than fall, especially in a hot climate.
ReplyDeleteI can't do spring baby but maybe one in the summer? We might start trying to get pregnant 3 months from now!
ReplyDeleteWell, I would LOVE to have a baby in the spring, but...you know...the husband thing.
ReplyDeleteI consider myself a spring baby expert now that I've had two :) And it truely is fabulous. I'm glad that you're willing to give the baby thing another try. But, honestly, who could resist when your first kid was so cute! (and you are a great, fun mom.) No, I hope to not join you being pregnant then(three kids under three? mmm.. no, thanks.) I'm sure when they get to be older they won't mind being a year apart!
ReplyDeleteHa ha! Love this posting! I agree that May babies are really great - but June isn't bad either! I'm not ready for another one quite yet... with my little one just turning two... I like them farther spaced so I forget all about the 'terrible twos' before I have another one!
ReplyDeleteNo babies for me, what with the live virus shots and all. I got my kid fix visiting Ben's family this weekend. Besides, I need to be un-pregnant and ready to come swoop in and save you should the need arise again. Here's hoping that you both get to be in the same country this time around.
ReplyDeletewow...
ReplyDeletethe baby-request really brought the crazies outta the woodwork eh?
(notice Steve and Kellie ignored that whole portion of the post) ;)
Mandy and i are willing to get fat with you...if you wait 1 year.
but Ty and Dana (Tolbert) told us they aren't opposed to getting knocked up soon.
PS-one more incentive to wait a year, Beaver and Lindle might finally get Crunk...
PPS- Sierra can sit on the bottom of the pool, sucka. actually, it's kind of weird, she just looks up and blows bubbles...
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