Sunday, January 28, 2007

Great Old Friends



This entry may not make much sense to you- depending on who you are. I’ll give you the moral up front: It’s great to get to see people you loved long ago.

As many of you know, I lived in Brazil twice before coming here. The more resent time I lived in Rio do Janeiro. The first time, however, I lived here for almost 2 years as a missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. My guess is that most people’s reaction to missionaries is that you either love ‘em or you hate ‘em. Most of the population would most likely fall into the latter category.

At times, as a missionary, you knock on a door of a house and the door is actually answered (and not slammed in your face). These cases are relatively rare, but the point of the work these missionaries do. The luckiest of these missionaries, finding a few people during these two years who are looking for what you have. In the very rarest of cases, they actually find you.

I was one of these “luckiest”. Carmelinha stopped my companion and I one day as we walked down the street. She wanted to know about our church. She and her two boys eventually joined- and not long thereafter I was sent to work in a new city. It was 2 years before I heard from them; this time her son Cassiano was leaving to be a missionary just like I had been.

Fast forward to yesterday when my wife and I hopped in the car and drove the 4 hrs to their small town. We checked into the hotel and went to find them, not knowing anything about what had happened in the last 7 years. Carmelinha answerer the gate and when I asked if she recognized me she said my last name. She did! Cassiano was called and quickly appeared with his wife and two year old daughter. We spent a wonderful evening with them, and had it not been for a fussy baby, would have probably stayed until late in the night.

I can’t express how wonderful it is to reunite with people to whom you gave such a valued gift. There is a bond that is indescribable. I truly felt blessed. Here are a few pics from our trip.




Tuesday, January 23, 2007

tasty fingers

Officially my favorite picture of the wee one. This is what she spends all day doing, anyhow!

Thursday, January 18, 2007

our new camera rocks

A few pictures of the brood... the first few are of a dress that our beyond-cool friend Yvonne MADE Solei!! It was kind of hard to get her to model for me, so instead, she just made me giggle.

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(so this one looks like she's standing, but she's laying down and I took it with her looking behind at me - weirdly cute!)

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This one would have ROCKED had I been more focused on the camera and less on smiling at her... but can't help it, she mesmerizes me!

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See?? She's like a can-can dancer!

And now, random pictures, because I can!

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I love this one - she was tasting the roses her daddy got her mommy for their anniversary.

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Off-center, but I like it. My thank you to Jared for my present. And yes, I made him re-do this one plenty of times:)

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She responds to me now!!! I love it!!!

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It amuses me that when I kiss her, she opens her mouth up. Nice girls kiss with their mouths closed!! But, it's that joy and excitement that makes me fall more in love with her every day.

Sunday, January 14, 2007

2 years old

Tomorrow is January 15th - our 2nd wedding anniversary! While our first year seemed crazy, I don't think we can top the 2nd year's insanity (we hope! cross your fingers!!)

Anywho, my gift to Jared (and let's face it, myself too) is for the second year in a row I've compiled some memories from the year and made a movie of them. Making it was wonderful because it helped me remember all the wonderful times and not so wonderful times we're survived, and how crazy I am about my uber-fab husband and even my screaming, screaming, screaming, I'M SO ANGRY baby. Hope it makes you smile, it gave us some happy thoughts.

Thursday, January 11, 2007

Just When You Think Things Couldn't Get Any Stranger

Just a quick note.

Our home was supposed to close at 9am on Monday. My mother was standing in for us at the closing. Something told me to call her. SO, I got on Skype and called her Cell Phone (Isn't technology amazing??). Well, it turns out that there was a huge problem with the sale. The buyer had tried to back out the night before - apparently he had cold feet. Well, the next morning he showed up and promptly announced that he didn't have sufficient funds to make the purchase. He had racked up $ on his credit card that he had to pay off and claimed that in addition to that he wasn't told that he had to bring a little more than $4K to the closing. Well, that was the last straw. We had already donated a piano, washer and dryer, and a large amount toward the closing costs. That was the last straw. So, after all that work our house did not close after all.

This makes us even more unsure about things. Before we had the whole world open to us, now we have a house we need to do something with, again. Maybe we need to move back...

Tuesday, January 09, 2007

Life Brings Changes...

So, it has been forever since we updated this thing. Please forgive us. A LOT has happened in the last few weeks and we have been a little preoccupied.

First of all- there has been some tension at my work over why I was brought to Brasil and what I am supposed to be contributing. My role is as a program manager and an operations manager for a battery manufacturer. I have two jobs and one paycheck. Long story short- my local boss doesn’t like paying my very expensive American salary when he could hire a local person, bully them more than me and pay them less than a third of what he pays me. So, he’s done his best to get rid of me. Finally after 6 months he got his way and the VP is allowing him to dismiss me. Feeling this tension I was already beginning to look for something else and welcomed the final decision. I can stay here until March 31st. After that, I either have to get a job here or go back to the states. My new job search is going very well; I’ve been approached by a number of companies and even had a phone interview with a company in Atlanta.

All this right before we left for Christmas in the states (more on that in a second). Just before this happened I was called to be a member of the Stake High Council in our stake (this is a council of 12 men that are responsible for assisting the president of a stake – who oversees between 5 and 12 congregations). This also means that I was ordained a High Priest in the church (I was an Elder in the Church). To a member of our church who is looking to go where the Lord wants him, it would seem that the Lord would want us here in Brasil so that I could serve in this new role and help them. But things aren’t leaning that way – so far.



Then there was the Christmas break. We spent a wildly fast week in the United States. We visited Reva’s family in Orange County California. Everyone got to see Solei for the first time. She was a real charmer. Even at 3 months old she is very much an extrovert who loves people. It was SO nice to have a fun family Christmas with our family in California. Everyone was so sweet and did so much to help us feel welcome and enjoy ourselves. The 6 hour time zone difference was a bit to deal with for all of us, but we managed okay.

And now we are back here in Brasil again. We took many of our belongings back to the states and put them with everything else we own in my parent’s basement. If we do have to leave, we wanted to be sure that we could take back to the states all of the important things. If we are staying, well, we are going to have to get used to wearing the same 7 or 8 outfits.

Finally, we put our house up for sale in June when I was leaving for Brasil. In fact, that was one of the very last things that I did before I left. Finally in November we found a buyer. We were SO excited. Over the last 2 months everything you could imagine going wrong with a closing has gone wrong. BUT, our house should close today at 9am! Although we LOVED our little house and feel such a connection to it, it is nice to have the “issue” resolved. Now, wherever we go, we can have a fresh start with nothing to hold us down. Personally I would love the opportunity to build something that is exactly what we want. We will see how things work out…